I love the vulnerability of these moments. I think I can feel every time he moves any part of his body. I feel like we might be dual parts of the same organism. Sometimes he grabs my hand and holds it or just flexes his fingers and palm over my skin.
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Often women see this act as a major turn-off or a chore, and engage in it only as a sense of obligation when they want their own oral sex and so will simply deal with it. The tender but hardened tip rubbing on the back of my throat, my tongue sliding over the tender spot right below the head, and the pulsating in my pussy as I take him just beyond my gag reflex. Hearing his moans and having him run his hands through my hair as I hit all the right spots. This is when I feel connected to my lover as I look into his eyes and see all his barriers vanish and the glow of orgasmic energy radiating from him. Some would say that this position and this act are demoralizing and take away my power, when, truthfully, these are the moments I feel most powerful and have the most control. At any point, I have the ability to change speed, stroke, or simply stop. No one is forcing me to engage in this act, I love and revel in this experience.
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If you enjoy going down on the woman in your life , there's a good chance she wants to return the favor. But have you ever wondered if she's actually enjoying herself when she gives you a blowjob? After all, the oral sex move has "job" in its title—it's only natural to second guess her excitement as she makes her way below your belt. Of course, every person enjoys different things in the bedroom, and it's impossible to make a blanket statement about whether or not women like giving blowjobs.
Back in my teenage years, when sex seemed like a strange tribal ritual on a distant shore, the concept of giving a blowjob was much more in vogue. Although I never ran with the crowd who were experimenting with their sexuality from a young-ish age, I was intrigued by their stories of what had happened at the latest house party. It was because girls who gave head in school were hailed as bigger sluts than girls who were having vaginal sex. If you liked it, you were the worst skank on the planet. As I moved into the adult world, and the mysteries of sexual activity were unveiled one by one, blowjobs became less of a big deal and more of a go-to.