Kids learn a lot throughout their time at school : who invented lightbulbs, for instance, or fun rhymes about Henry VIII beheading his wives. What they don't learn are lessons that are actually useful in adult life, like how to file taxes, make an aubergine curry or go down on someone — if they're that way inclined. Straight cis men, especially, are taught by mainstream pop culture that the simple act of eating someone out is good enough: a few flicks of the tongue and… bam , a mind-blowing orgasm and even if not, they should at least be grateful that you're trying. But as anyone with a vulva knows, there is a difference between someone going down good and someone going down not so good the same goes for dicks, I'm sure, but that's a separate piece entirely.
How to eat someone out - or lick someone out - really well
Why Do We Say "Eating Out" When Referring to Oral Sex?
Research shows that straight women statistically have fewer orgasms than any other demographic, including lesbians. And then there are fools like this who think making a woman come runs counter to their masculinity. Responses have been edited for clarity and style. One last name has been withheld for privacy. You have to build up the anticipation and get the juices flowing. Foreplay is so important. You really need to read her body language.
If a guy ever approached me with a fork and knife in hand, I would start running in the opposite direction immediately—so why do we call oral sex on a female "eating out? But let's back TF up first. If you're currently reading this in class, you might want to dim your screen a little. Well, when two people really like each other and want to get intimate—just kidding.
Well, at least until some girl tells them exactly what to do down there! To most guys, eating a girl out is just a waste of time. Why please her with a tongue when you can just use your dick, right?