Sometimes you want to have sex standing up. Other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you crave a kinky position , or one that lets your partner go really really deep. When those dominant feels strike, there's only one course of action to take: Get on top. A woman-on-top sex position will let you dictate the depth and angle of penetration, as well as the speed. Plus it may help you reach orgasm more easily, says Reba Thomas , a sex educator and CEO of Sexpert Consultants, a company that specializes in adult sex health education.
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Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction.
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While it's great to focus on having better sex with your partner, and to make sure you're both enjoying yourselves in bed, remember it's OK to focus purely on yourself at times as well — particularly if you're someone who tends to have trouble orgasming during sex. According to Vanessa Marin , a sex therapist, her clients often ask, " Do other women ever run into this? It's so common, she even offers an entire online course dedicated to teaching women how to do it. It's still possible, of course, to enjoy sex, even if you don't orgasm.
Reaching orgasm can be, well, hard, if you're not in the right position. You're welcome. Quick disclaimer: orgasm does not always have to be the end goal of sex, for either party. But given the 'orgasm gap' — the reality that men and people with penises are far more likely to come while getting down than women and people with vaginas, it's important to talk about the disparity.